So you want to date an African American? Well, don’t be surprised if Dating African Americans are similar to other dating practices. There isn’t really a difference if you want to know my opinion. The mass media has placed a lot of negative hype about Black men and Black women which is outrageous and false. Not all men are going to resemble Lil Wayne or our dear President Obama. You probably will date someone in between. There are slight differences with every culture but for the most part we all want to be loved.
So let me dig into Dating African Americans 101. I will explain from a sistah’s point of view, what Black men want and what a Black woman are looking for in today’s dating scenes.
Fortunately, the Black man wants what all men want, which is someone who listens to him, enjoys his company and has a sense of self.
Black men come in a variety of flavors, from hip hop gansta to corporate deal maker. As a woman, you need to frequent places that has your type. Places to visit are billards rooms, they have tons of men playing pool after five. Black men also enjoy Black owned bar and grills, so find a good one in your area. Outdoor Jazz, Blues and R & B concerts are loaded with available black men and women, especially during the summer months.
Black women are everywhere and anywhere that makes a difference. They are the social butterflies of our culture, so they are able to adapt easier. Where should you look for a Black woman? Book stores, coffee houses, concerts (forget the American Rejects and check out a Mary J. Blige concert)universities, the mall because she loves to shop and she looks good. Lastly, there are a ton of single women in church and if you can part with your Sunday sports game, it might be worth the effort.
Dating is a serious business but if you look in the right places your certain to find someone when you least expect.
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Wearing high heels can take a woman to another dating level compared to wearing flats. There are 3 reasons why a woman needs to wear high heels to attract a man. High heels says to a man that I’m soft and sophisticated, concerned about style and eager to improve my sex life.
Well, I’m sure you’re wondering how can high heels imply so much information. Believe it or not it does. Wearing high heels really gives a woman a sense of fashion and self confidence. Physically, high heels can lift a woman’s calves to look more curvalinear. It also helps her to straighten her posture and walk with the shoulders back.
1.Soft and Sophisticated. High heels give a woman that soft and sophisticated look that makes a man look twice as she is walking by. A woman has to take smaller careful steps in heels avoiding a possible fall. However, developing a new walk is half the fun once she learns to perfect her balancing act. And take notice to a woman trotting to get a cab or a bus. You can be sure the driver will stop in a flash. Try doing this in some flats and the cab or bus will pretend they did not see you.
2. Style. Wearing high heels opens the door on style. A woman can dress up her attire with elegant high heels to match her evening dress or wear something a little more casual for daytime outings. Todays styles are endless to fit the desires of fashion savy women. There is something for every type of woman, such as high heels that are made with earth friendly materials, comfortable widths and lengths, retro, contemporary and classic styles.
3. Improving your sex life. High heels can also improve your sex life. How? One report that I read by Dr. Maria Angela Cerruto, a urologist at the University of Verona, Italy, stated that “the tippy-toe posture of heels can tone a woman’s abdomen and pelvic floor.” This meant that the pelvic muscles were more relaxed when high heels were worn. Therefore, relaxed pelvic muscles helped more women reach sexual pleasure.
In conclusion, if you want to take your dating skills up a notch try on a pair of high heels to see if it makes a difference. It will not hurt to try a new technique. If you are not a high heel guru, take baby steps and gradually increase the days you wear high heels.
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Most of my life I have missed subtle hints that a man was interested in me. Unfortunately, I was wrapped up in my own private world. It wasn’t until I examined my dating habits and realized that my biggest problem was me. Somehow, I was sending out the wrong signals that said I was not interested. Men would come, but like repellant they would immediately leave (LOL). To stop this madness, I had to do something drastic… So I began to experiment with these top 5 ways to get noticed.
1. Open Body Language
Show open body language. Do not cross your arms as if you are tired, bored or disgusted. Your potential love will hesitate to approach you because you look tense. Relax and take it easy.
2. Smile more
Try and look pleasant and smile more. A sincere smile is very inviting to everyone. You will get more compliments from all types of people because it shows your warmth. Somehow, strangers enjoy talking to a smiling person.
3. Make eye contact
Make eye contact with the person you’re talking with. Show them that you appreciate their conversation, give a head nod once or twice. Remember, the eyes are the window to the soul. So give him or her a sexy gaze.
4. Wear something sexy
If you are looking to find a certain someone, you are going to have to wear something sexy and noticable. I mean you don’t have to be dressed from head to toe, but something should stand out. For example, your favorite, blouse, shirt, pants..Something that makes you feel confident and like a million bucks. The more confident and relaxed you are, the more at ease you’ll be to have a sudden conversation.
5. Approach him
Be confident to approach him with a little light conversation. If he’s not interested he will say a few words and keep moving. There is nothing lost but everything gained. You have developed the courage to go after what you want without any fear of rejection. And this is the most powerful step to master.
I hope these online dating tips help to make your dating relationship a success.
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Uncategorized | jaclis May 29, 2009 | 
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