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4 Things You should Not do to Get your Ex Back

A break up is like a love story that’s gone wrong. You feel angry, hurt and depressed, sometimes lifeless. Most couples constantly ask themselves “what should I do to get my ex back?” Well, there are various methods for getting your ex back. Some of these methods are valid and others are down right deceitful. My advice is if you sincerely want to get your ex back follow some of my earlier recommendations and stay away from these 4 relationship killers.

1. Don’t Play Games
Playing games is the number one relationship killer. It is easily defined when your ex pretends not to care, when in fact he really cares and doesn’t want you to see it. It can also be the reverse when your ex is stringing you along when his intentions are not to get back together. Be honest and don’t resort to lying and tricking the other person.

2. Jealousy
Don’t become a jealous ex. Jealousy could effect your chances of getting your ex back if you fail to give each other space. Once couples break up, they need time to make adjustments in their lives. Don’t hover over one anothers time to heal from any hurt that is lingering on. A few days or weeks apart is healthy for relationship growth.

3. Don’t be mean
It doesn’t matter who’s to blame for the break up, try and remain civil to one another. Sometimes the anger from a break up causes both people to be mean and vicious. In most cases, there’s the get even type of behavior that arises from the deep hurt. If you want to get your ex back try to show forgiveness instead of hate.

4. Avoid Arguments
If you are in contact with your ex on a regular basis try to avoid an argument. Your ex may want to rehash old issues that drove you apart, but the best remedy is to show her your best behavior. This may encourage your ex to remember what brought you together in the first place.

Finally, these are just a few tips that I have followed from the “The Magic of Making Up” to help me get back together with my ex. It’s an incredible how to guide that’s a must read!

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