Dating African Americans

So you want to date an African American? Well, don’t be surprised if Dating African Americans are similar to other dating practices. There isn’t really a difference if you want to know my opinion. The mass media has placed a lot of negative hype about Black men and Black women which is outrageous and false. Not all men are going to resemble Lil Wayne or our dear President Obama. You probably will date someone in between. There are slight differences with every culture but for the most part we all want to be loved.

So let me dig into Dating African Americans 101. I will explain from a sistah’s point of view, what Black men want and what a Black woman are looking for in today’s dating scenes.

Fortunately, the Black man wants what all men want, which is someone who listens to him, enjoys his company and has a sense of self.

Black men come in a variety of flavors, from hip hop gansta to corporate deal maker. As a woman, you need to frequent places that has your type. Places to visit are billards rooms, they have tons of men playing pool after five. Black men also enjoy Black owned bar and grills, so find a good one in your area. Outdoor Jazz, Blues and R & B concerts are loaded with available black men and women, especially during the summer months.

Black women are everywhere and anywhere that makes a difference. They are the social butterflies of our culture, so they are able to adapt easier. Where should you look for a Black woman? Book stores, coffee houses, concerts (forget the American Rejects and check out a Mary J. Blige concert)universities, the mall because she loves to shop and she looks good. Lastly, there are a ton of single women in church and if you can part with your Sunday sports game, it might be worth the effort.

Dating is a serious business but if you look in the right places your certain to find someone when you least expect.

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