How to fix a Broken Relationship

How to Fix a Broken Relationship is the number one question most couples want advice on. My response is always the same, all relationships require an endless amount of give and take. In order to make your life together a solid bond, each person will have to sacrifice and compromise. I have a few tips on how to fix a broken relationship that I will share. However, keep in mind that mending a broken relationship is not easy. There are no quick fixes. In fact, it will require you make some changes in your attitude and lifestyle.

1. Pin-point the causes of failure
Make a list of things that created tension and stress in your relationship. I would do this step alone without your ex. The point to this is to review those hot topics that drove you apart. This will give you an indication of why something went wrong.

2. Review the List
Review your list a second time and write your name next to the topics that you were responsible for. Don’t be judgmental at this point, try and be honest.

3. Really take a hard look at your situation
Look at the list a third time and brainstorm about what could have led to the breakup. Which things on the list were your fault and which were not. Think about how you could have handled this situation differently. Write down a few notes next to that topic about what other choices you could have made.

4. Actions Speak Louder than words
Now you are ready to fix your broken relationship. Arrange to meet with your ex for lunch or at a café. Share the information with your ex on what you did and how you could have handled it differently. Your ex will be impressed and embarrassed . Impressed that you are able to admit to your faults and embarrassed that he or she did not do the same. Before you make that move to get back together, I recommend that the both of you make a list and review it together.

5. Resolution
Since you have had an open discussion with your ex about your shortcomings. The both of you can really analyze if your relationship was becoming stale because there was not enough excitement to keep it going, or the relationship was becoming claustrophobic because you failed to give one another room to grow.

This will be the part when you can reconnect and get back together to form a stronger bond or go your separate ways on good terms.

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